You show interest… she pulls away. You act cold… she disappears. So what’s the move? In this post, you’ll learn the one signal that keeps her interested without chasing…and without losing her attention. The Problem: Neediness Kills Attraction Let’s keep it simple. The more you show you need her…the less she feels the need to invest in you. When you text first all the time, compliment too much, adjust your life around her… You’re sending one message: “I need you.” And need creates pressure....